The Art Of Spanking

Spanking is the most common aspect of bdsm and even if you are not into the
whole bdsm thing, you may still have tons of fun with some light (or hard)
spanking. It is a fantastic way to spice up your sex life, but be sure that
your partner feels the same about that very intimate and potentially insanely
arousing practice of spanking that butt until it’s pink. When it is done with
care and love, spanking is much more than just slapping on an ass, it is a sexy
thing that can become the part of your everyday foreplay.

The first thing you must have covered is that your partner is also up for it.
There is no sense in pushing someone to do something when they really don’t
want to. Nothing spoils the mood like if one of the partners is not up for it.
However, once you are sure that you are both up for some light bdsm action; it
is time to learn a thing or two about actual spanking, things that will make it
into something very special.

First of all, the position. There are two most common positions in which the
spankee can get what’s coming to him. The first one is standing up and it is
great if you wish to do other things in the breaks from spanking (which we will
cover later). It is also a great position as it involves the weight of the very
ass in the spanking, with you being able to hit it a bit from below, really
feeling the shape and the softness of the ass. The other position, and maybe
the most common is with the spankee laying face-down or over your knee. This
position gives you great approachability and it is really the most popular
position.

Secondly, don’t go rushing in there, hitting that ass like Steven Seagal when
pissed. There is nothing hot or sexy about smacking that ass five times in a
row, trying to break the speed of sound. It will end in excruciating pain that
will subsequently end in no more spanking. Start by touching the ass, kissing
it, caressing it, massaging it. Then, you start slowly tapping the ass,
listening and watching your partner to see where he likes it most.
And then the real fun begins. You can choose whether you wish to spank with
your fingers together or with the fingers spread, which annuls the resistance
of air and makes for a bit harder spanking. You must also make sure you do not
hit too many times at the very exact spot as it will become far from arousing.
And then it’s all up to you. To vary the speed, to tease the spankee and to
make him beg for another spank. It’s not just slapping in the same rhythm and
with the same force.

Use your imagination and turn your spanking session into something
unforgettable!